I was in mid spinning class this morning when a man came into the class with a cup of water for the woman on the bike beside me.

15 minutes later he came back with a refill.

I thought to myself- here is a guy in his second marriage, a guy wanting to get lucky or  a guy not wanting to actually work out in the gym.

I asked them and it turns out it is a second marriage for both. When his first marriage broke up he spent hours in therapy, did not see anyone for several months and really did his homework. His first marriage had failed and he did not want an encore.

I am impressed. He had me at the first cup.