to forgive and not to forgive

I understand that forgiveness is a gift we can give ourselves.

When we forgive we feel happier and lighter.

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my affair

When I was in my twenties and living in Paris I had an affair with a famous Czech writer.

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pants on fire

Hey Lance-Here is the thing about lying-you can’t decide to be truthful – you either are or you are not. There is no convenience with truth it is just an imperative or it is not. If you come clean don’t expect the world to forget all the moments of gross indignation, public and private attack,  lawsuits threatened, executed and won, bulldozing  people who tried to tell the truth and correct an incorrection, or you passing the other guy because of a synthetic advantage you may have had over him.

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