what do you say when someone is suffering?

what do you say when they are not well?

what do you say when you are not sure they can hear you?

what do you say when they are next to you but far away?

what do you say when they are or may be  aware of their present limitations?

what do you say when you can’t say it will be ok?

You tell them you love them

You tell them they are loved by so many

You remind them of what they have taught you and others

You remind them of the impact that they made

You remind them of the power they once had and how it is enduring

You thank them for what they have given you

You hold their hand

You touch them

You kiss them

You say I love you again

 I may be stating the obvious but we need to talk about LOVE seeing how it is Valentine’s Day- specifically loving that most important person in your life today and everyday- click here for the 5 step program to LOVE