When she took her new boyfriend up to bed for the first time, she walked by the painting her grandmother painted many years ago.
The painting was not nudged, it was not bumped but amazingly it jumped off the wall.
seriously this is not a newsflash
if any of this is a surprise to you, you may be living under a rock
BUT, I have added a few notes because I feel it is never totally black & white
1. you’re late (umm yes sometimes but never by a full day, or a season or a year)
2.you’re distracted (I feel this can be your fault if you are too boring and I need to be distracted because of it)
3.You lie (girl walks into a bar looking for self described tall, dark , handsome for pre arranged meeting only to find not- so- much draped over a his second double scotch- leaves and sends angry email- you weren’t there ! And he knows he has been found out)
4.You’re depressing. Please medicate before first date, at least.
5.You’re intense. Not sure on this one- stable intense is a turn on, unstable intense is very SCARY. Lock -your –door- scary.
could I please be my mother’s daughter and add my #6
#6 MANNERS -Or as dear friend put it “ Nance, I don’t think I am a snob but when he took his gum out and put it on his dinner plate (to save for after???) I was done.”
7. You are self centered. Ahh yes the monologue. But I must if the other person is boring. Or if I have had too much caffeine.
8. You are judgemental. – lets face it- only if there is something really obviously worth judging. Then it can’t be helped
9. You’re critical. When you check out my derriere when I walk away from the table and I can see your face in the mirror, make a nice one. Even better-one of surprise that it looks so good.
10. You are pre-occupied. You are on your BB on our first date? It does not make me think you are important or handsome or badly wanted. Things are looking quite ugly, actually.
“I blame my mother for my poor sex life. All she told me was, ‘the man goes on top and the woman underneath’. For three years my husband and I slept on bunk beds.”
Joan Rivers